This post is mainly for those of you looking for nothing other than a hookup. The fact of the matter is REAL women do go for the nice guys in relationships. Immature, 20-something girls go for the assholes. However, when it comes to hookups, it might seem to you like women of all ages only go for the pricks. And you would be 100% correct.
It’s not that girls don’t like nice guys. In fact, my title is a tad misleading. Actually, they do. But only as friends. Nice guys are easily taken advantage of because, well…they can’t say no. When a girl needs someone to join her for lunch, go for a walk in the park, or talk about her problems, she goes to her nice guy friend because he’s always available and willing.
Truthfully, her nice guy friend is more important to her than her fuck buddy. Fuck buddies can easily be replaced, especially if you’re a woman. But a nice guy that’s always there for you isn’t so easily replaceable. However, Mr. Nice Guy is NEVER going to get down her pants. He’ll always hold out hope that he will. But she’ll never make a move. And if he does make a move, she will politely reject him and then the relationship will become awkward.
Nice Guys Don’t Have Sex Appeal and Why Assholes Do
Let me first define an “asshole”. I’m not talking about complete jerks that hit women (NEVER hit a woman – EVER) and verbally abuse them. That shit isn’t cool. Those guys aren’t assholes, they are pieces of shit. Assholes are guys that aren’t always there when a girl needs them (except for sex). He calls her out when she does something he thinks is ridiculous. He doesn’t always tell her she looks beautiful when she’s wearing an outfit that doesn’t look good on her. And he calls the shots in the relationship.
He’s not romantic. That’s why he never lasts in a relationship. But he’s confident, strong, and will stand up for himself. If she tries to insult him, he defends himself. Women do not like pushovers. Nor do they like needy men. So an asshole might go 3 hours without responding to her text message to not seem needy. And she’ll be left wondering if he’s ignoring her or out screwing some other chick.
An asshole will also comment on other women’s looks. So if a hot chick walks by, he’ll let his girl know what he thinks of her. Why does this nonsense turn girls on? Because they love the chase. They are turned on by the thought of getting with a guy that other women want. And since other women want assholes, her man will be a wanted man.