It’s important to show up for your first date dressed nicely and feeling confident. Guess how far doing that will get you? About as far as the conversation does. You won’t get anywhere with a woman if you can’t charm her. Not just with your looks or smile. But more importantly – with your conversation skills. The purpose of good conversation is showing her you’re a fun person. The truth about women is they can EASILY be talked into bed.
How do you talk a woman into bed? By NOT talking about sex. Say what? That’s right. When you’re out on a date with a woman – whether or not you’re just after sex – keep the conversation interesting, but refrain from talking about sex. If she’s into you, offer to bring her back to your place. She’ll know what you’re implying – you want to get laid! You don’t have to talk about sex to get down her pants.
Why shouldn’t you talk about sex? Because you’ll seem desperate and that sex is the only thing on your mind. She’ll assume there’s nothing more to you than being a man with a penis. Women love men with great personalities. Even if you’re just looking for sex, show her that you’re fun to be around. Sometimes she might actually want to go have some drinks or go to a ballgame with you. Other things you should NOT talk about on a first date…
- Politics or religion
- Nagging ex-girlfriends (past relationships)
- Your jackass boss that treats you like crap because you’re too much of a pussy to stand up for yourself
- The weather
- George W. Bush
- The best Star Trek Convention you’ve ever attended
What You SHOULD Talk About on a First Date
Her Interests: This is the best way to get a conversation going and to get her to open up. This also requires you know something about her before meeting. So read her profile and pay attention to the things she says online and via text. She’ll be impressed if you bring up some of her interests in the conversation.
Future Goals: If you are looking for a relationship, you must be honest here. But if you’re just after sex, feel free to bullshit. Women are attracted to a man that has a plan for success. Think big, but be realistic. Chances are you aren’t going to take over Microsoft when Bill Gates steps down.
Cool, Random Road Trips: I don’t think I’ve ever met a woman that didn’t love traveling or didn’t dream of doing a lot of traveling. Talk about where you’d like to take her. Just make sure it’s an exciting location such as hiking through Glacier National Park and not hitting up a McDonald’s in Des Moines, Iowa.